ok so my brother and i just got x box live(halo 3)(which i had to pay for) and he is really pumped.....anyways he wants to be friends with this guy and he is to shy to ask...i dont know why, i know this guy made some videos on you tube, which is the reason i think he is nervious,also rank , armor, and other thinngs that i dont see why they matter.........but anyway i tried to send him a message and he had too many friends so i was wondering how do you send this person a message.......anybody know......please dont have stupid answers